Kevin O’Leary Tells Entrepreneur, ‘I’m Not Dr. Phil’ But Your Fiancée Is ‘Easier to Replace’ Than A $5 Million Business

Kevin O’Leary Tells Entrepreneur, ‘I’m Not Dr. Phil’ But Your Fiancée Is ‘Easier to Replace’ Than A Million Business


When Kevin O’Leary talks about entrepreneurship, he doesn’t talk about work-life balance. He talks about priorities.

In a 2022 appearance on “Impaulsive with Logan Paul,” the “Shark Tank” investor told a story about teaching a night class for a group of graduating engineers. With five minutes left in a three-hour session, a student who’d been silent all evening raised his hand.

“I’ve been running this business out of my dorm, and I’m about to graduate,” the student said. “It’s a cloud business that provides compliance software for hedge funds that have $250 million or less. I’m making about $5 million a year in free cash flow.”

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O’Leary told the podcast, “I don’t hear a problem.”

But the student did.

“My fiancée came to me today and said that she’s going to leave me,” he said. “I’m not spending any time with her family. I don’t have any time on weekends… I just can’t, because I’m so busy, and I’ve got to keep my business going. I’ve got to graduate my degree.”

O’Leary continued recounting the moment to “Impaulsive”:

“The class is like—you could hear a pin drop in there, right?”

Then he gave his answer. “I said to him, ‘Wow. Okay. I’m not Dr. Phil, but let me give you some advice here. Which one is easier to replace—the girlfriend or the business?'”

And he didn’t stop there:

“You’re making $5 million a year, and every woman in this class now knows this…If you can’t work this out, you’re going to just do fine.”

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O’Leary framed the decision not as emotional, but strategic—something every entrepreneur will eventually face.

“She’s not the right person if she’s not supportive of this journey you’re on,” he said he told the class. “You’re obviously going to be wildly successful. You’re going to get somebody else.”

That sparked a debate in the classroom that stretched for another 45 minutes, O’Leary said, about how entrepreneurs should spend their time, and who they choose to build their lives with.

“You’ve got to find a partner—a significant other—that understands the journey and is willing to support that journey,” he said on the podcast. “Because that’s ultimately how you’re going to be personally free one day.”

He emphasized that the best time to go all-in is early in life, when the risks are high—but so is the freedom.

“It’s best to be an entrepreneur in your 20s,” he said. “It’s very hard to do it later on when you’re free to actually spend 25 hours a day working.”

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O’Leary wasn’t discouraging anyone from love—he was laying out a reality for anyone serious about building a company: the right relationship doesn’t slow you down.

Not everyone can—or wants to—put in 25 hours a day. But there’s another way to take part. Startup investing allows people to support the kind of founders who will skip weekends and sleep to build the next big thing.

Whether it’s AI, consumer tech, or future-of-work platforms, O’Leary’s broader message applies: if you’re not the one scaling the business, be the one who helps fund it and potential profits off getting in at the ground level of the next big thing.

Because in his world, the people around you either believe in the mission—or they get left behind.

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